People living with persistent pain find that pacing is one of the key everyday skills to learn and use.
Pacing can help you achieve your goals without increasing your pain or letting tiredness force you to stop.
As you’ll see, pacing is like the story of the tortoise and hare: slow and steady wins the race...
How can pacing help in managing persistent pain?
Pacing means changing how you exercise and do daily activities so as not to flare-up your pain and to gradually increase what you are able to do. Pacing helps you to become more active and fitter, stronger and healthier.
Pacing is about choosing when to take a break from an activity – before pain, tiredness or other symptoms become too much. In other words, not carrying on until pain forces you to stop.
Here are some of the positive changes that people with pain noticed after they learnt the skills of pacing:
Positive changes reported by people who learnt to pace
Doing more They could do more over time, either by themselves or with family and friends. They could tick more things off their ‘to-do’ list.
Sleeping better They could sleep better at night.
More control They felt they had more control over the pain and their activity levels.
Less medication They depended less on medications and thus experienced fewer unpleasant side effects.
Brighter moods Life became more enjoyable – they had more fun.
More energy They felt stronger and more energetic – they had more ‘get up and go’.
A better social life With more confidence that their pain was manageable, they could plan for a better social life and do more things with family and friends.
Less pain They found they had less pain and had fewer setbacks, which didn’t last long.
Less effort They felt less effort was required to achieve daily tasks and activities.
A true story
I was never any good at pacing even before I had neck pain. I always pushed myself harder or longer to get things done. My early life probably made me that way, so it was hard to change.
I was very dominated by the pain. I had to get back to work and so get fit quickly. So I would do far too much at home or at the gym. When I did get back to work I did loads of overtime to make up the money. So my pain took over again. I would be off work, fed up and stuck at home often in bed or the sofa all day.
Slowly I learnt with practice and trial and error to use pacing. It made a real difference. I found out I was using too much effort for too long. It was difficult at first because just when I felt good doing something, pacing meant I now had to take a break. But over time I learnt to balance my breaks and activity better.
I then learnt to use breathing to slow me down and relax better.
I am much more reliable now, less of a perfectionist – and the family are pleased too!
Whether we know it or not, we all do some kind of pacing – it just might not be the best kind for us.
Generally speaking, there are three unhelpful styles that people with persistent pain often use: overactive, underactive and ‘boom and bust’. As you read about unhelpful pacing styles below, decide which pacing style you currently use:
This means doing too much activity or too many tasks over a short space of time.
Typically, this happens if you are having a good day, with less pain, or your mood is better: you try to do too much and end up with more pain and tiredness. This means you miss out on enjoyable things because you have to take time out to recover.
Underactive pacing means that you are doing too little activity to help keep up your strength, stamina and flexibility in your muscles, ligaments, joints and bones.
Most of your time is spent resting, sitting or lying down, which is understandable, especially if there as lack of fitness makes muscles and other tissues tight, weak and painful.
However, this can actually add to your pain, so over time you end up doing less and less because of the pain.
‘Boom and bust’ pacing
Often people use pain and energy levels as a guide to their activities and pacing them. This means they risk doing too much activity on good days (overactive), which makes their pain worse. They are then forced to rest while the pain settles down (underactive).
This is a mixed style of pacing, which is unhelpful in the long term. It’s sometimes known as ‘boom and bust’.
Whether you feel that you tend towards being an overactive pacer, an underactive pacer, or a ‘boom and bust’ type of pacer, then the good news is there’s lots you can do to change your pacing style.
Tools and resources to help you pace well
There are lots of ways to make some changes to your pacing style. Here are four suggestions for you to try:
Sometimes, for people with persistent pain, your goals may seem so far out of reach that it doesn't even feel worth trying to achieve them. Achieving your goals may take longer and require more planning, but this doesn’t mean it's impossible.
One way of increasing your ability to reach your goals is to develop the skill of goal setting.
Find out how in Footstep 4 - Setting goals.
1. Activity Diary
To learn how to pace well, it’s important to understand what your pacing style is now. A good way to do this is to track your activities with an Activity Diary.
How to do it
Fill in the Activity Diary for at least two days. To do this you will need to:
- shade in the boxes for the hours when you were asleep
- fill in what you were doing and for how many minutes each time
- write down when you took a break, sat down or lay down, and for how long
What to do next
When you have completed your Activity Diary, what do you notice about your pacing style? Use these questions to guide your thinking and write down your answers:
How much activity did you do each day? (in hours or minutes)
How much time did you spend resting, sitting or lying down each day? (in hours or minutes)
How many hours were you asleep each day? (in hours or minutes)
Did you manage to do the things you needed to do?
If yes which ones?
How much effort did your activities take on a scale of 0 to 10?
Do you think your current pacing style is mainly underactive, or overactive, or a mixture of both styles?
You can draw up your own Activity Diary on a sheet of paper – or download and print a ready-made one here:
2. Effort scale
An effort scale is a good way to check whether an activity you are planning to do is going to be too much effort (leading to overactive pacing), too little effort (underactive pacing) – or just right.
Decide the effort level of the activity you are planning to do. Aim for an effort level of between 4-7 on the scale below. That might mean altering your plans to do a little more or a little less to make certain the balance is right for you.
A low effort level means that things may not get done, or they will take ages, and you may get frustrated due to lack of progress. Too much effort and you may crash out with a setback again.
It’s rather like checking a temperature in an oven. Too little heat, the dish is undercooked; too much heat, and the dish burns. An effort scale guides the balance of your activity to prevent a pacing disaster.
Rate the effort level of an activity on this scale:
If the effort it takes is 3 or less on the scale, experiment further – try spending more time on the activity and/or doing it faster.
If it’s 8 or more, reduce it with more breaks and/or doing it for a shorter time.
If your score is between 4 and 7, this is the balanced level of effort and you’re most likely to succeed.
3. Daily Pacing Plan
When you’ve got used to rating the effort, you could also create a Daily Pacing Plan to help you balance and pace your activities.
Balancing the body and mind together on activities helps do what you want to do. This will help control your pain and life with more success and less stress and move on in your life journey.
Give pacing a go and start with a pacing plan and reward yourself for achieving a helpful habit for life.
ABC questions to help you build your Daily Pacing Plan:
A. What Activities can I pace today? B. How long before I take a Break? C. Check what is the effort level on the scale
You can draw up your own Daily Pacing Plan on a sheet of paper – or download and print a ready-made one here:
4. Balanced thinking
Helpful pacing also needs balanced thinking that helps you to balance the time spent on an activity with rest periods or breaks. This thinking helps you keep up the activities which you value and are part of the goals that you want to achieve. It is a really tricky skill to learn and use, yet makes a positive difference to being more active, to your sleep and even to the pain itself.
To help develp balanced thinking, try to be aware of:
1. Thoughts like ‘must’ or ‘should’
Replace these with ‘could’. For example, instead of thinking ‘I must get it all done today’, try kinder thoughts such as: ‘I could choose to pace, and do it in stages over two or more days.’
2. Thinking that all the jobs must get done today
Watch for the unrealistic ‘all or nothing’ thinking styles as they are rarely helpful. It is not giving in to do it in a paced way!
Resources for you to use
Based on the text of this footstep, this pacing leaflet explains what pacing means and how to unlock the benefits of balancing activities through the day.
Chronic fatigue and chronic pain
A useful PDF from Get Self Help, which includes practical guidance and an extensive list of further resources to explore.
A great leaflet and article on managing your pain by pacing, from Pain Concern
Pacing: key ideas
- Pacing is one of the key self management skills for people living with persistent pain
- It can help you achieve your goals without increasing your pain
- There are both helpful and unhelpful styles of pacing
- Changing your pacing style could bring many benefits and lessen your pain